Giving of Oneself
by Mistress Monique
I am writing this letter to you in the hope that it will be published in your paper. I would like to have people read it, as it may open the eyes, heart and minds of some of your readers.
I am a Professional Dominatrix. Now, for those of you who do not know it, there are two types of Dominatrices: Professional and Commercial. I would like to take a moment to explain the difference.
A Professional Dominant is a person who is skilled in the advanced arts of domination, fetishes and fantasies. She may, or may not, charge a fee for their sessions. What makes her a professional is her skill and knowledge to guide her submissive counterpart into areas they do not know exist.
A Commercial Dominant is a person who does sessions with monetary profit as her major aim, although she may, or may not, be skilled.
Perhaps this doesn't mean anything to you, but it should. I would like you to think back to an exceptionally enjoyable session that you have had. To achieve that level of satisfaction, the person you were with had to be skilled in the many and varied arts of fetishes and fantasies. She was aware of you, your thoughts and desires. She was not simply with you because of your money.
It takes a person of higher than average intelligence to take you to places where you can unwind and release all of your inhibitions. You were able to submit yourself to a lady you barely knew. You bare your soul, even cry in her presence. If you are honest with yourself, you must admit that those of us who are professional Dominatrices probably know the real you better than your own wife.
I don't want to step on anyone's toes (or egos). I sincerely wish, for those of you who are married, that your wives could experience your inner self as I do. They could see your inner beauty as you reveal your hidden secrets and desires. You usually hide these thoughts within yourselves. I really feel quite fortunate to see, and be a part of, your secret lives. During sessions, you are open, not phony. You know that you, and your secrets, are safe with me. A bond of friendship and security is formed.
On the other hand, we have the other type of "mistress"; the commercial lady. Now, this is where I may step on someone’s toes. You do sessions with little or no understanding of what you are doing. You do know, however, how much money you are making. You do not care about the people you see. The only thing you care about is the money they willingly give you. Have you ever stopped to think about the number of hours he or she has worked to gather the money for your fees? Do you realize that they do everything short of breaking an arm to visit you? Don't you understand that they enter your presence with high hopes that their fantasies will be realized?
You, however, have little or no regard for their well-being. You don't even ask them what they enjoy or do not enjoy. You don't ask what areas they would like to explore. At that point, the money is yours and you just want him to finish and be on his way. The man is just another easy trick. I feel sorry for him, but I feel pity for you. He has come to you with his needs and desires; to be something that only you can see.
I have heard this story so many times: "I have been to see this lady, or that lady, but she doesn't know what she is doing!" Those of you who are doing sessions should take pride in this art. It is a gift that can provide so many beauties. Learn all you can and learn it well. Give all of yourself to these skills. In the long run, you may prosper. More importantly, those who seek you out will prosper also.
See also [ Reflections Magazine ] for pictures and story
Update 9/21
She has been living in Missouri for the past few years and passed quietly of a cerebral tumor.
Mistress Monique was a magnificent Lady, and I am not just saying this because she was part of my family and my life. My parents adored her.
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