Mindfuck
A mindfuck is a slang term which describes a work that uses literary devices such as nonlinear storytelling and plot twists in order to present convoluted, yet not conflicting, themes. A creation is usually considered a mindfuck when a casual observer is not able to discern the true meaning of work without making a serious attempt to unravel the themes presented or when the plot is incredibly difficult to follow. Special examples of mindfucks involve a single plot twist which completely changes the viewer's understanding of the events in a film or novel as well as the ideas it presents.
Mindfucks in BDSM
In BDSM, the term mind fuck refers to the act of experiencing or creating a situation that brings about a sense of confusion or a heightened sense of stress, achieved by misleading someone within the confines of a scene or role play situation.
The bottom may be fooled as to the nature of the activities being taken part in; for example, the bottom may have consented to taking part in a branding, and been blindfolded throughout that part of the scene, only to discover that in reality only very cold ice cubes were used (it can be hard to distinguish hot from cold), and no branding had actually occurred.
Tell two blindfolded slaves that they should both perform a menial task, massaging your feet for example. Then tell them that one of the them is doing much better than the other. The punishment for such poor behavior is that the other slave will be spanked. Standing behind the two, clap your hands. This will make each slave think that the other has been punished, causing both to try just a little bit harder.
What can make it even MORE of a mind fuck, is if the submissive has already led the Dominant to believe s/he is into having scenes in front of other people. This way, the arousal of knowing she may be in front of others is a positive situation and increases the excitement of the scene.
When one begins to have more experiences with mind fucking, one can easily be more creative as time goes on, creating different levels of stimulation and arousal.
A Dominant's purposeful use of the submissive's lack of trust towards the Dominant will prove highly effective, especially at the beginning of a relationship. Using mind fucks wisely and creatively can only help to build and strengthen trust and respect between partners.
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