Dungeon monitor
A Dungeon Monitor (sometimes referred to as a "Dungeon Master" or DM) is a person charged with supervising a playspace or dungeon at a BDSM events such as play parties and fetish clubs.
They can be of any sex and may normally take any role (dominant or submissive) in the scene, but while on duty their authority is absolute. If a DM orders a play scene to stop, it must be stopped immediately.
DMs are usually people with several years experience in the scene, and who have training both in BDSM safety practices and first aid. They often have a special uniform or hat, but there is no standard way of denoting a DM. It is best to ask when arriving at a party or event how to identify the DMs on duty.
- New England Ds Dungeon Monitor FAQ
1.What is a dungeon monitor?
A dungeon monitor will be present at every NE-DS social function. This person will be recognizable by the black t-shirt that says "STAFF" on the back and "DM" on the sleeve. These will typically be people that have been involved with the "scene" for a bit of time and who have good, practical knowledge of safe, sane and consensual BDSM play.
2. Why do we need a dungeon monitor?
A dungeon monitor is present to ensure that party goers enjoy themselves, while providing a sort of "safety net" for everyone. A DM will ensure that house rules are observed and that any social play is safe for all parties involved. If at any time, a scene or situation becomes unsafe, you may contact a DM and be provided with immediate assistance.
3. Should I only get a DM if I have an emergency situation?
DMs are provided for everyone's safety. Certain situations require assistance. These include, but are not limited to emergencies, unwanted advances or company, disturbances, potential hazards, health related emergencies [i.e.., diabetic reaction, asthma attack], headache, injuries etc., Sometimes, party goers will be having a good time and not realize or recognize that a very intense scene may be taking place. A DM will maintain order and create a "workable" environment, with the cooperation of all party goers.
4. Who can be a DM?
Anyone who has a desire to be an objective, careful monitor of play at our functions. They should contact MrLee at NE-Ds. There are advantages to being a DM not the least of which is doing service for your group and your community.
See also [ Dungeon Monitors Association ]
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